End-of-Life Options for Pets
Exploring the Options Available for the Loss of an Animal CompanionLosing a pet is a heartbreaking experience that many pet owners don’t want to think about. When you face the reality that your furry friend is at or nearing the end of their life, it’s important to know what options are available.
As pet parents, we all want to ensure our furry companions have a peaceful and comfortable end of life. At Fond Farewell, we want to ensure that you and your pet receive the care and support you both need during this difficult time. First and foremost, ensuring your pet is free from pain and suffering is paramount. Consulting with your veterinarian to assess your pet’s quality of life and discussing options for palliative care, euthanasia, or natural death can help make this difficult decision a bit easier.
The end of life deserves as much beauty, care and respect as the beginning.
— Anonymous
Let’s explore the various options you have when your pet is dying, from palliative care to end-of-life to after care choices. We want to help you navigate this emotional journey with compassion and understanding.
Weighing the Factors
When deciding between natural death and euthanasia for your pet, there are several factors to consider. Unless this is your first animal companion, you likely have experienced the loss of a pet before. As we discussed previously, your spiritual beliefs may impact your decision. An earlier experience with pet loss may also affect your preference.
The choice you make should be based on your pet’s quality of life, level of pain and suffering, prognosis for recovery, and any financial considerations. In addition, your own emotional readiness to say goodbye is important. We recommend consulting with your veterinarian, which can help you weigh these factors and make an informed decision.
Options for Your Pet’s End-of-Life
Pet Hospice or Palliative Care
Similar to human hospice services, animal hospice care focuses on providing comfort and quality of life for your pet with terminal illnesses or conditions due to aging. This is a fairly new practice in veterinary medicine.
The goal is to manage pain, alleviate symptoms, and offer emotional support to both pets and their owners during the end-of-life process.
Natural Death
If you choose a natural death for your pet, this means your animal companion will pass away on their own without any medical intervention.
While natural death can be a peaceful and gentle process for some pets, it can also be accompanied by pain and suffering. Pet parents must monitor their pet’s quality of life and comfort during this time. There may be times or situations where intervention may be needed.
Euthanasia at Home
Some animals react strongly to riding in a car or visiting places like the groomer’s or the vet’s office. If this description fits your pet, you might want to consider an at-home visit from your vet. If your vet does not offer that service, you might consider a mobile vet or a company that specializes in home euthanasia.
Euthanasia at Veterinary Clinic
If you and your vet have reached the sad conclusion that euthanasia is the best option for your animal companion, your vet may advise you that right now is the time to proceed.
If the health of your pet is manageable for the short term, your vet’s office may have you schedule the procedure in the near future. These appointments are typically scheduled early or late in the day to ensure the clinic is less busy and quieter.
Many people hide their feelings—at least those that might be visible, such as tears and other displays of emotion. The problem lies in pushing away and covering up emotions connected to the death of someone important to us.
Staying busy can keep your mind occupied. Being physically active can sometimes help you fall asleep easier. The problem is that we can’t always stay busy. At some point, you will need rest. During or after an activity filled day, you will experience a moment of stillness or quiet. It is then you realize that staying busy doesn’t lessen your pain. It just delays it.
Considering Your Preference
Your pet’s passing may be sudden or expected. If you plan ahead, it may make this choice easier to make than if you are in the moment of loss.
Pet parents are increasingly choosing to cremate their departed pets. This allows you to keep the cremains in a special place, and is a way to honor the important role your pet held in your family.
There is no correct sendoff for a furry friend, and preferences and priorities among pet parents vary widely. There are now more options than ever regarding what to do when a beloved pet dies, from a simple cremation tribute to a lavish burial and ceremony.
While some options listed here may not be to your liking, we want to offer as much information as possible. This will allow you to make an informed decision.
After-Care Options for Your Pet
Burial
The regulations of burying your pet at home have gone under some legal changes over the last few decades.
Some regulations depend on if you live in a rural area or a more populated area. Please be sure to check your local guidelines before proceeding.
Cremation
If you select to cremate your animal companion, you may arrange this through your veterinary clinic. If your pet passes away at home, you may also have the option of connecting with a local pet crematorium.
Typically, you will have several choices when choosing to cremate your beloved pet. Most providers will allow you to decide whether to get the cremains back or not.
Aquamation
This is a fairly new process and may not be available in your area. Aquamation is also referred to as alkaline hydrolysis. The process uses an alkaline water solution to slowly and gently break down your pet’s physical remains into a powder-like substance similar to cremated ashes.
Donation for Research
This choice is certainly not for everyone, but if you’re looking for a way to give back to the veterinary community and make your pet’s passing mean something more, donating their remains to a vet education program might be the right next step for you.
Taxidermy
This option may sound unusual, but there are companies that provide this service. They specialize in the preservation and lifelike reconstruction of your family pet.
Disposal
While we hesitate to broach this topic, there are circumstances that might require this type of service. The size of the animal and cremation expense can be two reasons for selecting this option. Typically, your vet will coordinate this service.
Honoring Our Animal Friends
Losing a pet is a heartbreaking experience, and finding ways to honor their memory can provide you and your family comfort during the grieving process.
Whether you want to create a lasting tribute or simply keep your pet’s memory alive in your heart, there are numerous ways to memorialize your beloved furry friend.
Depending on finding ways to memorialize them can be a healing and cathartic process
Options for Memorializing Your Pet
Funeral Service
A pet funeral is similar to a human funeral. In most cases, the pet’s body will be present during the service. The service may include flowers, music, guests, and an opportunity for friends and family to talk about the beloved animal.
Following the funeral, you may choose to have your pet’s body buried or cremated.
Celebration of Life
Like a human’s celebration of life, most often the service will be performed without the presence of the animal’s body. Instead, there may be the pet’s cremains or only a photo.
Much like a funeral, the celebration of life may include flowers, music, guests, and an opportunity for friends and family to talk about the beloved animal.
An Obituary
Friends and extended family may have built a relationship with your pet. For this reason, some people find comfort in writing an obituary when their pet dies. This is especially true if your animal companion works with the public as a therapy dog or working animal. The obituaries are commonly placed on social media, such as making a post on Facebook or Instagram.
A Place of Honor
It is not uncommon for a pet to have a special, or favorite, spot, and many people choose this spot for the location of a memorial.
One common practice is to create an outdoor memorial by planting a tree or flowers in your pet’s favorite spot. You might decide to place a simple marker in the location honoring your pet.
Another option is to create an indoor memorial, including a framed photo, shadow box with favorite memorabilia, and even the urn containing your pet’s cremains.
Lasting Memories
A common practice is to make a physical or online scrapbook containing your favorite memories with your animal companion.
Jewelry to contain a bit of your pet’s cremains, as well as charms, or figurines to represent your pet are popular.
Donations
Making a donation to a local rescue or animal organization in honor of your pet may be a good choice.
You may also consider donating your time to a good cause helping support animals in honor of your pet.
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